Your instincts will prove to be correct

Submitted by Isis (Australia), Sep 1, 2009 at 23:19

Elina, your intincts wil prove to be correct as time will tell that this man is married. He disappears for a few days at a time and this will be because he is with his wife and children.

I would run the other way too if I was told that a man that I barely knew uttered those"I love you" words two weeks after meeting him. Also you are quite right in realising that you would be putting in all the effort to meet and see him. Why should he get off his butt when you do all the work and spend the money because it WILL cost you?

As for dating him for a long time - I would give this plan a big miss too. Why encourage him?

Conclusion - dump him fast!!!

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