To Bewildered

Submitted by Allieh (United Kingdom), Sep 5, 2009 at 14:17

My Turkish ex was sending me messages and texts claiming to still love me and saying he wants to be with me and the baby in the future right up til 2 weeks ago. At the same time he had at least 3 other women that I know about and most definitely others I will not. They had been in touch with me and told me everything he was saying to them. He has slept with every one of them and yet is still spouting nonsense to me.
It amazes me how these men can come out with this rubbish and have so many women on the go. It's like they have no heart or conscience whatsoever and they really are just behaving like prostitutes. They will always go to the highest bidder.

I'm glad that you have blocked him now as it's the only way that you can get peace and stop him pestering you. I have had to do the same. His number is blocked on my mobile and I've blocked him on msn. It's much easier to move on when you're not faced with bleating messages full of fake love and lies on a daily basis. I'm so glad that things are better for you now and I look forward to those days for myself too. You are so right when you say "if in doubt DON'T" and I hope that others will see these posts and take heed. I certainly wish I'd seen them in time. Anyway here's to the future, and let's hope that these experiences have made us wiser and stronger people.

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