To ixxidan

Submitted by Allieh (United Kingdom), Sep 6, 2009 at 20:27

It doesn't look good. He is acting like a typical visa hunter and is using the usual techniques. Facebook is a gift to them and he will be adding many women and spreading his net as wide as possible in the hope that one will bite. They are very skilled at saying the things we want to hear and making us feel special, but in reality he does not know you and you don't know him at all. He is a stranger who is not even interested in getting to know anything about you, he just wants an agreement to marry. It is not about love in any way but about his wanting a visa and money. I bet if you told him you are not a US national and don't have leave to remain he would stop talking to you in an instant. I'm sorry to be so blunt but this guy is not genuine and I'd hate to see you get hurt. You obviously know deep down that something isn't right or you'd not be on here for advice. Go with your gut feeling and don't believe his lies any more. If you delete and block him and distract yourself with hobbies,friends, reading or studying then pretty soon he'll go out of your head. It does work in time. Good luck, Allie x

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