He wont!!!

Submitted by pauline (United Kingdom), Sep 7, 2009 at 04:11

Hello B, thanks for your reply, good to hear from you!! Yes you could be right, maybe he just said he had another, he told me a girl he worked with asked him for his number the day he left to go back to egypt for his months holiday? ( she asked him) what a joke! He then said on the day after that, he already had her number, but he had never been out with her or rang her?? I remeber when he first took my number, it was hours later and he was ringing me and leaving messages on my phone, and i only knew him a day!! I dont really think, that women ask for mens numbers? not usually, i wouldnt! A man usually asks the women!!!

Oh he wont contact me now, not while he is back in Egypt, if he does it will be when hes back in Dubai!! He will be far to busy to think of me when he is with his family. Yes, whoever he is with, or talking too, it doesnt matter where she is from, if she is a western woman, he is giving them the same bullshit, and will use them for whatever, and still marry a egyptian women in the end, or maybe already married to one!

I havent really spoken to him much anyway over the last few months, just the odd reply when he has messaged me, if ive been online. The funny thing is, thats a while back i told him i had met someone else, but it ididnt effect him at all, so i knew he never loved me like he said. Why would a man who loves a woman and wants marriage, give no reaction when they say they have someone else? he just continued on talking to me like it never happened, if i loved someone, and they had someone else, i would never be bothered with them again, i wouldnt want them if they had someone else, and just carry on talking about marriage and love. I would be so hurt and feel so betrayed to know they were with someone else? nevermind continue like it never happened? He said i know you will never love him, like you love me, and you woild come back to me?? ha ha.How could he be so cool about it? Because he never loved me, and you cant hurt someone who never loved you!!

I think back now to the many times i called his bluff about going to egypt and dubai, in the beggining, he offered to pay for me to go, i always said no, i will pay my own way, he knew i would say that, cause he knew i was independent, and would never ask for money from any man i didnt know well. Later i said ok you send me the ticket, he started hesitating, saying oh how much is ticket? I said, i dont know, go and find out. He never did, and it was never mentioned again!! This is a man who lives for free in dubai, and gets a good wage tax free, his money he earns is his own? He knows i have to pay everything here, nothing is free, but still calls me stingy, if i refused to text him or ring him, because as you know, its expensive to do that all the time!!! Oh B, i have done a lot of reminising over the times we havent spoken!! He was very smart with his plans, i certainly wasnt the first, this was a expert at work. He was in usa he told me afew years back, nver really talked about it, when i asked how he got his visa, it was very shady answers, i know dame well that for a egyptian to get into usa, it had to be a woman who got him there!!!!! There is no other way!! He tryed telling me that a restaurant manager in usa sponsered him??? Rubbish!!! A pizza restaurant owner would never sponser a egyptian just like that, he would get any local person to work there!! Like he would sponser thousands of pounds for him to work there, its not a proffesion like a doctor or nurse!!! I am a nurse for 25 years, and when i got the work visa in australia that was so hard to get, i needed so much paperwork sponsers, money etc!!! But they make there stories sound so convincing!!! But its the internet, they know its easier to fool someone on the internet, then it is in real life, it makes there job easier, because you cant see the body language!!! Anyway B, i will stay strong. Ive heard nothing since he left, but then he is proberbly thinking that in time i will be back?? God knows what he is doing in egypt now, but the man who claims to love me, like knowbody he ever loved before ha ha, hasnt given me a thought!!! ha ha.which is good for me, cause its more time to heal, and get through this!!! How are you doing??? Whats the latest??? Love Pxxx

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