strong but at times weak

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Sep 7, 2009 at 13:57

Hi Allieh

yes its amazing how these men are!! they definity have no conscience, it seems they are all in on these games, their friends and families too, competeing with one another, comparing who has come up trumps, out to brag about what they gain in money or presents and better still to marry and move abroad, they are leeches sucking all the goodness from their victims. i have no doubt there are good muslim men who would never stoop so low, but the young handsome men preying on tourists and the men on the internet night after night looking for women have a more sinister motive. I have learned so much since my experience but stil find it hard to believe that they can destroy peoples lives without a care in the world. Call themselves muslims? but remember we are from western culture and in their eyes we are the infidel so they feel they do no wrong! they think its ok for them to use us, and yes most of them have several women on the go, and declare love to them all.

I did block his messenger pop up messages for a while but curiosoty got the better of me and i dont know why but im so glad i found the real evidence and his messages of missing me now can take a hike, i feel pity for him to have to go to such lengths to get a life. and im so glad i gave him a hard time.

It just shows how false they are, your man still saying he loves you and wants to be with you , is it a race to see who will go to him first with you and all his other women? i do believe so. I hope you get through your pain without too much trauma, your life with him would have given you no peace because that doubt would always have been there. Show him the door!!!, mine got quite nasty when he knew Id had enough and the sweet words soon took a big turnaround. He will be doing the same to all of his women so dont be in the line for when he feels he has time for you. mine said he had another woman but still kept sending sweet words?? the same he sends to all lol, well we must stick to our motto IF IN DOUBT DONT!

I hope you can gain the strength to keep away because they are wonderful at pulling you back in, they are masters of art in this feild but in the end we hate ourselves for letting them do this, so its best to stay away for good.

take care and keep in touch x

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