Linda

Submitted by Hannah (United Kingdom), Sep 9, 2009 at 11:46

Linda,

I am pleased you have not sold your house and decided to go back home. But my advice would to be do not let him know any of your plans as like the others have said men there can turn nasty very quickly and you are not on safe ground, and alone in a strange country. If I was you I would get home as quickly as you can and get away from him before he tries to win you over again. Also I wouldn't bother telling him anything even when you return home like isis said leave him guessing and move on with your life, that will be the best pay back you can give him, as he will be left wondering and you will be safe back home getting on with your life.

Please let us know that you are safe and I wish you luck.

Hannah

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