please help is he for real???

Submitted by khris usa (United States), Sep 14, 2009 at 04:34

I met a turkish man a few months ago and we have been together every second since. He seems like such a nice guy but I know he has been with a lot of women a player i guess. He wants us to get married and i want it to. Don't ask me why i just feel so connected with him we are so happy together like a perfect couple. He is the sweetest man I have ever met. He is jealous but i am too. I am reading all the horror stories and it is so disheartning. I feel so happy about starting this new life with him and I feel like I am making a very good decision. I am 22 and he is 23. We are both equally attractive. We look like the perfect beautiful couple. He tells me he cares so much for me and I want to believe that because it feels so right when I am with him. The only fault I have seen with him is he is so anxious to get a visa. He wants me to help him. He claims he wants me to be the mother of his children so on so on....... I would love to hear of some success stories. I can't take anymore bad things :( surely not everyone who marries a turkish man has had such a nightmare experience.

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