Khris USA

Submitted by Lisa USA (United States), Sep 14, 2009 at 20:39

Khris if you just met this Turkish man a few months ago, he would not be pressing you for a visa. Im not married to a turkish man but I can tell you with my husband from Morocco he never felt comfortable talking about a visa or asking for one. If it was mentioned in our chats or conversations I would have brought it up so we rarely talked about it and even now we have wasted 5 months since we have been married and he leaves it at my timing. Luckily, I just mailed out our packet today to immigration services so we are hoping it will be 5 months if the schedule posted is correct as of june 2009....I haven't told my husband the good news yet...that it is actually in the mail as of today........ I think Its too soon for him to be asking you for a visa, so this would make me wonder what is the hurry. Just because you are both attractive doesn't mean you should not "love with your eyes wide open" You are young...Give it some time and see if you both feel the same way and see if he makes any mistakes along the way. If he is in a hurry for a visa and puts demands on you for visa, I would end it.

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