For Khris

Submitted by Zella (United States), Sep 15, 2009 at 19:00

The one positive part of your post is that you are 22 years of age. You are young and will be able to bounce back after you have been placed on the back burner...permanently. No, he doesn't "love" you. These men use the word "love" so quickly and loosely because they have learned from western movies that western women just love to be told they are loved. They laugh behind your backs. Sorry to burst your bubble but I have a tendency to be open and honest. They have absolutely no respect for women. Let's face it, women are viewed as inferior to men in their religion/culture. The bottom line is that all he wants is what you can do for him. These men are about "me, me, me" and nothing is going to change that.

When he learns that he cannot use you, he will quickly disappear. Forget about him and take care of yourself. You don't need him. He needs you but not for the right reasons. Good luck.

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