To Khris

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Sep 16, 2009 at 10:44

I delayed responding to this one because, as Isis pointed out in her excellent reply "...I don't think any word of warning will impact on you given your level of euphoria over this romance." I doubt whether any words from me will make a difference but I'll just say, as all the others have said, you are avoiding looking at the obvious: he's asking you to help him get a visa. If you want beautiful wedding pics, then go ahead but it would seem obvious that marriage should be based on more than sweet words and appearances.

You get along so well together ? Of course you do - so did my husband and I until my country refused his visa. He walked out the door right after. He was the sweetest, most loving man I'd ever met until that day. You don't want to see anything negative but you're playing with fire and you need to take off the rose colored glasses in case this guy is using you. See what happens if you tell him you want more time to get to know each other better. My bet is that he'll leave. He's good looking - he can get a visa from any woman by the sounds of things.

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