He doesn't love you

Submitted by Stephanie (United States), Sep 16, 2009 at 23:13

Because he is not emotionally invested as you, in other words, he doesn't love you. It's hurts but you know how you feel when you love someone. You want to atleast hear from them once a day if not more. We women are gullible and most men that really feel and love are the same.

I swear I kept wanting to believe somehow the one I knew was telling the truth. I swear I never felt so sad. It is even hard to eat any more. It's easier to hate him. I think it's all sex with the one I know. Now he says he has no phone cause I can't call him. He screwed up twice telling me he could call me on his way to work ...when I questioned that he said it was his roommate's phone...and that a woman he married for a greencard calls him, when I question that he said on his roommate's magic jack...I don't know. God f*** them for lying. I mean if he loved me he'd be available when I needed him...he'd be there and wouldn't put some so called friend who agreed to marry for a visa infront of me. I realized she always was ahead of me, she was on all his sites, she never was deleted like me or mistreated like me. She can call him when she wants. Why do they seem so umm...surprised when we think they liars? Cause they are not normal. Why can't they just say, hey I want full control and not have to worry about you interfering in my life and causing me trouble.... Still the only way I ever have of contacting him now is email and he won't write back...just out of the blue he calls and expects me to somehow believe in him.

He doesn't love you.

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