Poof - Disappearing Man

Submitted by Shelly (United States), Sep 16, 2009 at 23:40

Thanks for the assurance of what I thought. Pauline I did see him in person not online and yes did see his greencard. There has not been anything physical in a while with this man. But I will tell you having no contact makes it much easier to get over and even though we had remained friends I know I need to get him out of my life to really move on. You are absolutely correct in if a man cares or loves you or even misses you will find a way to call. and Luigi thanks for your feedback. I think he indeed viewed us very much as friends or occasionally coffee buddies therefore disappearing is not a big deal to him and I should be okay with that. I had questioned him extensively on being married or going to be married when we were dating when he travelled home. Ok major major redflag - the last time I saw him in person there were photo's he had taken with him phone of family pictures. Reading on here it could be his wife and kids. His phones wallpaper was photo of his "siste"r and there were a couple of photo of kids of which he referred to his nephews and nieces. It must have been his family. What do you think? He puts on all this stuff on his phone before he travels home? Ive been to his apt. so I know its not his secret wife here. Maybe he is trying to make them he opens his phone to dream of them while he is make $$$... Heck my picture was in there....lol

Thanks Again You guys are the best

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