life after muslim relatonships

Submitted by cherilyn (United Kingdom), Sep 17, 2009 at 03:13

Dear all. i speak to you after ending all contact with relationship. At first it is very tough - you must recognise what it is that complelled you to embark on a relationship with a man who has a different set of values and faith to yours Remember, his family are paramount in his life and if they make no effort to learn words of your language to communicate with you when you visit them then it is a sham relationship.

They allow the son to have bogus relationship to secure some money for his future and for gifts for the family.

You will feel like a queen- It is false.

Think about how much money it is costing you to maintain contact with this person- for what? To satisfy your ego- young men love trying any experience with women if they are that way inclined and older women love arm candy. Just do no fall for the love chat- marriage and kids nonsense

I don;t believe any of it is genuine- there is a 80-20 ratio of success in these mixed marriages and I have never felt happier since re discovering my faith and getting rid of a man who was just in i for self gratication- my advice. Stick wth what you know and stick with a religion which respects and honours women- just the 1.(mistress excluded) not 4 wives, not child brides, not bursaries- wake up ladies.

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