samantha advice

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Sep 20, 2009 at 17:26

Hi Sam.. at the moment you are in a relationship that is unreal - you have not yet met this guy, and although a meeting will be an exiting venture and something you long to do it is perhaps a long way off from the reality that will enfold. I am not saying dont go if you need get this out of your system , but in my opinion you will be throwing perhaps too much away if you have a boyfriend . It would not be un fair to just test the water and then if it wasnt to your liking then stay with the boyfriend back home .

You are however very young, and you need to think about the complications of this relationship, his religion and culture which i am sure you have researched. But on saying that even if you have your own room , staying amongst his family ,if you are alone it is not really respected. I have stayed at my husbands family home previously many times, but i was and still am married to him. So please think carefully, and other posters will no doubt have their opinions. good luck

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