To Jane and her question

Submitted by Lisa Usa (United States), Sep 22, 2009 at 22:08

Jane...Simo is short nickname meaning SIR Mohammed to pay respect. Mohammed doesn't have skype or access to voice on his computer. He has older version and we can not chat with voice. We use MSN.....We tried the voice before and it worked and then it quit and we get messages he needs to upgrade to newer version and he has something on his computer that unles he burns it to disc before he closes it, it is erased or dumped (way his computer was manufactured)...There are many Mohammed's,m'hammeds, simo's in Morocco. Morocco is also a big country......Simo is a very common name to pay respect for the Islam prophet of course. We are married in the court of law in his hometown (official) and are in the process of waiting for our immigration papers. Also Mohammed never was one who said I love you's quickly as I read here. Infact, I first brought up marriage and one day he asked me, so you think of me as your Fiance and we talked many months after daily and developed stronger feelings over time and even with it, he wanted to make sure our feelings were real when we would spend time together and unlike others here he did delete his sites he was on and asked me to do the same with the exception of my Myspace and facebook....... he has me on his Facebook as his wife and a couple picture for his profile pic and also my girls listed as his kids too and since it was hacked and he can't log on so he doesn't even use it right now. Also my husband's character is not pushy or demanding, but infact very patient with me....i waited 5 months before I started the visa process and he never once asked me WHEN will we or demand I get the money. We never fight and he tells me often "Have patience" . He was not looking for visa...he had a woman FRIEND he talked to for 3 years in the Uk who was single and she thought highly of him and he was not interested in anything more with her and we have talked and he talked highly of his love for me after my first trip there to her and showed her pictures on-line.......he also befriended a lady in Miami who always sent him pictures and it would seem her hang out was in bars and with men next to her in photographs so he avoided her to keep from hurting her feelings until I asked him just be honest and tell her and maybe she will leave you alone and quit looking for you and when she wrote one day saying she was in a relationship, he finally read her e-mail and responded back. There is not much he keeps from me...but I am honest with him too. Jane you can search belhaiba on facebook and find me and a photo. I can guarantee you 100% it is not him cause of his character with the way he has handled our relationship over the past 19 months.

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