Question

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Sep 23, 2009 at 22:34

Hello Becreative,

He chat with me not on internet cafes, but at his home or office. Does it make any difference? Anyway, I tried many times posing as someone else, but he always responded. I have a girlfriend already and I will never cheat on her. Maybe he is just pure clever. I don't know.

You said, I should not make promises that may never materialize. Do you mean, I should not believe on his promises? or I should not promise him anything? He said, he will visit me here in the Philippines once I finished my studies in London. We are taking things slow and not rushing into marriage. He proposed before, yes. But marriage will not happen anytime soon. I want to understand about his culture and religion first, because I expect it will play a critical part in our lives. Anyway, i gave him an ultimatum. Once I discovered he's been fooling me all along, i will leave him. End of this love story.

Love,

Amber Rose

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