Luigi

Submitted by Lisa Usa (United States), Sep 27, 2009 at 21:04

Does your Mohammed man write about you like this on the internet on conservative Islamic blogs in Arabic?

Actually Luigi, he doesn't care for the internet....we talk mostly by phone and use the cam only when we both have time and feel the need to see one another. Why would he need to defend me? Im not defending him as well. Someone posts negative comments and hatred here and make rude comments the way IstanBulChik has and its directed to all of us women who either are married or in a relationship with a Muslim man have the right to have our say without your nonsense attacks if she directs her comments toward us in nasty ways and calls us names...Sorry, but you have NEVER liked me posting Positive things and Oh well, you will GET OVER IT!

As far as my relationship, I don't owe you any explanations. Do I feel my husband cheats, No.....Does he feel I cheat, NO....you know why, cause he knows my character and the kind of person I am and I know my husband as well.....He doesn't drink, he doesn't like to party, he doesn't care for different girls, he doesn't hang out with wild friends and his best friend is our 50 year old translator..He is not uneducated...He spent 6 years in Marrakech's University and does have a Degree in Economics and is ok with continuing his studies further if needed, if he can't find a job here and in my city in Alabama we have lots of job oppurtunities and we have discussed we will work together to save and you forget Luigi, its not just me and him...he chose me with a 12, 14, 24 year old living at home....if he wanted a Visa for other than Loving me, he is an attractive Moroccan man, he could easily had other choices of women and even women with more money than i have cause he knows I come without a huge savings, big house and all the luxaries...

As far as cheating, If he feels the need to relieve stress if you know what I mean, he does so with me watching and participating somewhat without unclothing fully...he could have gotten it on the street and yes, I would never know, but he chooses to embarrass himself on cam just to make myself happy with some pleasure too to express our love and the fact we miss one another.....I don't but he does for me.... if you want to post things like he is cheating to make me doubt him, well Luigi all I can say to you is I know my husband and you don't. I know what we have been through with my side of the family and his and because of ways he would handle situations and his calmness, manners, respect and help, I know I have a very caring,loving and honest man as I am the same. We both are patient and we know we will be together within 5 months. We received our NOA1 so far and I know my background checks out, I made OVER double the income needed to support him for family of 4...I have my 40 credits already paid in....I have his translated copy of his police background...we married in a family court/magistrates office in front of two Abdous and others and an English/Arabic translator. Its recorded in the family register...I furnished the USCIS with EVERY SINGLE day of our chat logs/records all pertaining normal conversations about family,our daily routines, any disagreements, concerns with my kids....we didn't sugar coat anything for them like some do to get approved...I wanted them to see his character and yes, they may blush too with some of the chats, but they will get a feel of our characters so I sent it all no matter how private....There will be no confusion of how much we both love one another and there is no other agenda or conversations him playing me, hinting for, or in our relationship merely by wanting a visa. They too will see his patience, understanding, caring and love....I too wish one day Luigi you will find someone you can be happy with and experience this kind of love. I can promise you, you will not find me on here putting you down for your choices.

Luigi I hate your on-line relationship did not work out and you had red flags present but ignored them and kept sending her money etc...and caught her cheating...but it does not mean you should criticize others when they have experienced no issues of the sort. You cannot give biased opinions because in your eyes everyone is cheating.......You forget my husband does not come from a poor family....Its been 19 months and he still does not accept money from me. Im 9 years older and not 15-30....When I offer money, he still tells me he still has his money and savings. I don't know why you have such an issue with us. Everyone on here knows its cause you dislike them so much and you have always felt the need to try and tear me down for posting my positive experiences.

I just find it most interesting that you have to write poetry about your relationship after yet another long-winded essay as to why you think your marriage will work out in order to make yourself feel better.
Luigi, see lol...rude comments, when I can't take credit for this beautiful poem ....an unknown author on-line wrote it and its not about my relationship...its any relationship...its about choosing your partner for him being himself and if I had it any other way...I would choose him again with no regrets.

(( HUGS)) Have a nice week Luigi.

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