Point of view for Jasmine

Submitted by Curious (United States), Sep 29, 2009 at 19:56

Firstly, can you be sure that your boyfriend didn't know it was you pretending to be someone else? One guy in particular did that to me. I knew it was my friend using another name because of the direction of the conversation and the way he writes. Once you start messaging with someone, you get to know their online persona, and well, sometimes you can just tell that you're not speaking with a stranger. In one case, this same guy had another guy message me in chat and I could tell during the course of the conversation that he was steering toward specifics in my relationship with this guy ... it really doesnt take a rocket scientist to figure it out what's going on after a while of talking.

If you're satisfied that he didnt suspect it was you, then you may want to proceed as Amber Rose did. She gave her friend an ultimatum. I think she told him something like no other women, no more disappearing acts, and this is the last chance. So, apparently you still have not satisfied your doubts about the relationship in which case it will eat you alive until you're satisfied that he's either genuine or he's playing you.

If it all means that much to you at this point, give him one last chance and an ultimatum. If he accepts then move forward and hope for the best. If he does not accept or he breaks the deal, then you're going to know for sure that he's still in the "playing" mode and probably will be for some time to come and that being the case, after one last try, then delete him and don't go back again. Good Luck!!

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