Reply Hadir

Submitted by debs (United Kingdom), Sep 30, 2009 at 17:41

Hi Hadir,

Thanks for your comments, its nice to hear from you. I totally understand what you are saying that I am the only person who can judge whether he is using me, I will say that the family continue to be great with me even though he has been tough to deal with the last few months, they do tend to say that he is acting stupid. I do know that he has not had any other g/friends that is apparent as I have got to know lots of people who know him. I have great muslim female friends in the UK that often give me advice when I confide in them about things and they have helped on how to tackle and challenge him so I have a good support network.

I don't know where our relationship is going at the moment I refuse to marry him until he proves alot to me, which so far he has been trying. But only Allah knows what will happen ,he knows our destiny so what will be will be, only time will tell, but I am stronger now than I was a few months ago and I am certainly not letting my love for him blind me in any way.

Just for some information can you tell me how you have found life there as you said that you have a western/Egyptian family? What challenges do you face?

Many Thanks

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