Thank you Snow Child

Submitted by Amber Rose (Philippines), Oct 1, 2009 at 04:58

Dear Snow Child,

Thanks for responding. You are also an Asian? What nationality specifically? Japanese? I also feel that there are a lot of things he is hiding from me. I just don't have a solid evidence to prove it.

Too late Snow Child I am very much involved with this guy emotionally. I don't want to have fun only or play around. I want to marry him and be his wife. But being a devote Catholic; I could not share him to another woman. This is totally unacceptable. But how could I do this? There are so many doubts in my head that are hard to shake off. You say, these Muslim men think we are just a toy to be used solely for sex? Oh my God. Do they all think the same? There are some Westerners happily married to Middle Eastern. You think it's unfair to generalize? A very famous actress here in the Philippines was married to a Turkish and they have 2 wonderful daughters. But sadly, their love story also indeed. This Turkish man wants to win her back desperately, but she made up her mind already. So I think it is possible that they could love a non Muslim woman for real. You agree or not?

I gave him an ultimatum that if he had gone missing again, I will put a period on this relationship. No further negotiation at all. He knows this and he had been exerting a lot of effort to prove himself. I planned going to Egypt and investigate myself. Do you think this is a good idea? I will be in London this October just a 5 hour flight to his home country.

I need to be sure if he is for real. If not, I will bury all the fantasy and move on. Thank you.

Love,

Amber Rose

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