asking for your opinion

Submitted by falling into trap (Philippines), Oct 5, 2009 at 22:48

i am so overwhelmed by this website and i found myself in a similar situation with the other girls who fell in love with someone over the net. I also met a guy from an internet for more than 6 months now, he is a palestinian but he lives in jordan and currently finishing his medical course. I dont think that he is into a money scam because of their financial status but somehow i have seen him an eagerness to work abroad especially to germany and US.

He treated me as his girlfriend but he never mentioned this relationship to his friends because he said he wants his personal life to be so private. He kept on saying "i love you" and "I miss you" but only during if I am online. I tried to make another ym id to test his loyalty to me but he entertained it and he even put himself as invisible to my ym id so that i can't chat with him (i know a site where i can see whether he is online or invisible).

There was a time also that i sent him gifts to let him feel my sincerity but he only said thank you. I am so madly inlove with this guy, and now that i am about to work in qatar he said he can visit me there and perhaps to live in one room coz he knows that i am still a virgin and same with him (but i doubt). Just can't feel how sincere he is coz i'm the one who's taking the first initiative action to contact him. Now that he has this plan to see me i am worried though excited that he might only break my heart deeply. please give me your views on this. thanks

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