advice needed

Submitted by julie uk (United Kingdom), Oct 15, 2009 at 06:47

I found this sight three years ago after being involved with a tukish guy who i met in turkey k newfor five years and was with him for just over two i knew from day one this guy wanted visa but just played the game .Anyhow last febuary 2008 i walked away he got married seven months later and is now living in Scotland so think my instinct was right ladies he has since e-mailed me but i just ignored it all over no contact.

Now i find myself in a simiular situation though this guy is french morrocan has lived in uk for 9 years lives in my home town we have been together for 9 months see each other more or less every day became engaged 2 months ago ,gives me everything cooks for me,buys clothes for me takes me away for weekends and has never asked me for money . I love my man very much only problem is he can be really secreative at times i know these muslim men feel they dont need to tell their wifes girlfriends everything but its getting to a stage were its frustrating me maybe its just me an my insecurities because of the turkish guy. I have a turksih male friend who has been married to an Irish women for 30 years so in sum circumstances it can work and they are a lovley couple alot older than me the turkish guy once told me a good muslim man never takes he gives ,which my man does and yes iam older than him . Reading these blogs make me so nervous i dont want to be scammed again . Any advice or comments would be gratefully received.

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