same story for me...

Submitted by mare (United States), Oct 26, 2009 at 20:23

Wow, what a story and it is exactly my story. The same words, it is so identical it makes me wonder if its the same person. It couldn't be though for the amizgh berber man I talked to for over two years is from Morocco. That only tells me they are part of the scammers from that part of the world. Same story and they get into your heart mind and soul, its as if you are in a trance and your immediate attention is to the computer.

I personally prayed so much, I prayed for guidance and relief, for this man was so convincing, yet there was something in my heart that knew something wasn't right. By the little words he would say to me and by his actions. I know this man is a married man yet he continued to lie about it and I know that the arabic men are very jealous if another man pays attention to their wife and this was happening he told me the woman who was feeding him and giving him food in the background was his brothers wife, yet he told me when you come here to visit and we get married you will never do nothing for any man, not even my brothers, you will not look at other men and so on.

Everything he did was a lie to me. That is what the answers came to be when I looked deeper into the Moroccan way of life. When I followed the messengers from the Creator. I have my peace of mind back. I do not look for this man, for he is looking for me on facebook, now I deleted so many friends. I don't even go there any more. I want him out of my life for good. When those men can have any woman from age 13 on up in their own country it makes you question their motives for wanting a woman from so far away. Well the long distance relationship isn't for me especially when the man is so demanding and very jealous, wow you can find that here in USA.

When he started using in the name of Allah he will punish you so bad for hurting me, I left and for good. I am Native American and that doesn't sit well with me. Its over for me but those ghosts come back to haunt you when you least expect it. Stay strong and be happy no matter what and pray thats all we have to do is grab and hold on to our inner strength for Tunkasila will never let us down. I will find love on my own home ground.

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