to Mary

Submitted by Lotte (Czech Republic), Oct 28, 2009 at 13:04

Hello Mary,

are you seriosly thinking of getting married with a guy you know only from one month talking in internet???

Nearly all of them are telling you at first *come and live in my country* or lets move somewhere where he doesnt need a visa. All the samy story came also for my egyptian guy. He knows that you will have hesitations to go and live in his country so it gives him the opportunity to ask * ah by the way I can then come and live in your country, I miss you so much I can never be happy without you. Even when I dont like Europe I come and do it for you* and dont be surprised when he knows then everything what papers you need and where and what you have to apply for to help him to get into the country. My one was even better informed than me where are the embassys and, and .... luckily I started thinking clearly before making all this stupid mistakes.

Dont be blind from all his nice words and from his charm. They are damn good with this stuff. Think 3, 4, 5 times before making this step. It can mess up the rest of your life.

all the best

Lotte

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