To Lisa USA---on attacks

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Oct 28, 2009 at 23:06

Luigi, If you have something to say... you can post it to me and not attack Lina or Isis to get your point across to me.......

I didn't attack Lina. Posting a point of view different from yours, hers and Isis's does not constitute an attack, nor does my evaluation of her comments.

I think we all know deep down the only reason you are defending her is because she agrees with your relationship, even though she posted on the exact same day that she agrees

I had plenty of time to have a clear head and didn't jump into anything. How many times have I told you a Moroccan man or a foreignor was NOT by choice.

This relationship is your choice, Lisa. You are an adult, and if this man is leading you around by the collar, then you've got bigger problems than I realized, especially since you two are now an ocean apart.

I look at men by their characteristics and not what country they are from.There are plenty of good men here in America but why can't you not understand, there is only one who captured my heart and I wear my wedding band proudly.

So did sash, until her Moroccan man betrayed her.

I would also appreciate if you have something to say about ME you post it to me and quit writing to me through Lina or Isis.

We are all adults here and my life is not some childish game for you to poke fun at!

I'm poking fun at anyone on here, Lisa. I'm direct and forthcoming and I get to the point. Disagreeing with you does not equal poking fun and disagreeing with Lina does not equal an attack.

My husband's name has been mentioned in FULL name here and not one woman has stepped up and said she has been in a relationship with him...

Is that your basis for marrying this man? Wow....

Just because no else has stepped up does not mean what you have is real. This blog is not an either/or determination, but merely a guide.

I have our pictures posted and links was posted here and not one woman stepped forward and you want to post his name it has been mentioned here....well it has not, other than a 3 year old site before we met that has not had any activity in 3 years and its unfair for you to post insinuating such to try and discredit him.

It's not unfair, Lisa, because the evidence speaks for itself, much of which you have provided yourself.

Our "cuddling" picture from my first trip is his Facebook account's profile picture and there is also an album of my kids listed as his family/children...Even with this website it has been hacked and he can't even get into it to delete it or change our picture to a current picture.

Pictures don't validate anything for me, Lisa.

Luigi, My husband will be here in USA in about 5 months, it will not be an internet relationship and our relationship is not by internet.....we talk on the phone these days and the internet is only a tool to see one another in between.

I was not talking about the future, Lisa, I mean now. And I would not be surprised at all that should Simo arrive, he will make preparations for another move.

Luigi, How many times do I have to tell you, I do not care what you think of my marriage.

Then why do you keep replying to me?

Him coming here to defend me or my kids would not prove his love and frankly, its a board with biased opinions mostly by you and scorn women given the exception of many women/men who read here and do not ever post.

Lisa, some of the statistics for this site are publicly available, and I'm sorry, but most people, particularly those who are in stable, real, healthy relationships, simply do not waste their time coming onto blogs like this. They are much too busy enjoying each other and raising their kids. That includes Moroccan couples.

I am continously amazed at the amount of time you and other man-defenders spend talking to me on here. I must really have some solid, interesting material as I keep pulling you away from such wonderful husbands, boyfriends and fathers.

I happen to be just one who came across the board and defended the "good" men including my husband and I get "raked over the coals" for doing so.

People here like you only want to hear the "BAD"

Like I keep saying, Lisa, if your relationship was so good, what gets said on here should not bother you at all. Instead, you take any general comment (and some of them are not nice) and act like you and Simo are always the victim.

People in secure relationships do not do that, so clearly, Lisa USA, there is something not well here.

As it so happens, I have a lot of evidence to contradict most of the relationships on here, and some are much more glaring than others. I tend to a decent job of letting people know where I come from to find out the truth, and yes, Lisa, a lot of time the truth is not pleasent to hear, but I'm not one to sugar-coat information.

If you want people to pander to your man and his culture, feel free to take it up somewhere else. It's not gonna happen with me and it does not happen often on here.

and frankly my husband would tell me not to read this board, that your opinions of him would not matter cause you judge him without knowing him and he would not hold bitter feelings toward you.

No, Lisa, I'm not judging anyone. The simple fact is that you've provided an enormous of information in the past several months, including a link to your personal myspace page that helped win people like Isis and Lina over despite their continous warnings about on-line dating.

I know I've alreadly told you that you've alreadly communicated more to me that you realize, and I have more than enough information to see where this one is headed.

his makes him a BETTER person than you Luigi and its only one of the reasons I love him.

Oh, I see. I'm not supposed to "judge" Simo, but you can "judge" me by saying that he's a better person than me?

That's hypocritical, Lisa.

Love him? I'm not convinced. It's also clear to me that you don't trust him.

As far as my rantings, you don't see me on here ranting...only you throwing accusations my way and it bothers you, that I reply back to your unjust accusations.

I hardly call explanining myself on here "unjust". I think you're just upset because I'm one of the many people on here who does not think your marriage will amount to long-term happiness.

Your replies only bother me to the extent that it influences other readers in the wrong direction for selfish reasons and that you are setting yourself up to get hurt.

...Luigi, I don't have problems with my husband and I am not sure why you want to post and insinuate

a) You probably spend more time on here than talking to him

b) You are defensive and in some cases rude. Clearly, you are unhappy to the point that Simo cannot rectify it

c) To borrow a paraphrased line from Casablanca: You sound just like someone who is trying to convince yourself as much as the rest of us (including me, though you deny it) of something you do not in your innermost being believe.

I will not say more, cause then I am accused by you of BRAGGING on him. We have been together for 20 months, two trips there, and soon he will be here. He has only been good to me.

Anytime someone has to come on the internet and defend their relationship to people they've never met, it's bragging alright. The golden role of posting on a blog: Writing so that others will read it.

I don't have to say more. I don't have to prove my relationship to you.

Oh, Lisa, but you always, always do. Prove your relationship? That's all you've been doing, it's just you have not been doing that a great of job of it. 3

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