To all Women out there

Submitted by my eyes are open (Qatar), Dec 2, 2009 at 02:41

I had spoken with my Jordanian boss, and he told me that generally Arab men are double-faced. They don't exactly mean what they say, so if someone told you that he loves you and can't bear a life without you don't just believe on him, scrutinize every detail and open your eyes. I've been on the same situation, fell in love with a Muslim-Arab man and until now I can't get him out of my mind. He has many chatmates and yet he keeps on saying he loves me. He can't even send me a text message or a call, but he says he meant that he misses me. All are lies.

So please to all women here do not invest your emotion to a man whom you have met only from the internet and whom you don't know well personally. Use others experience as your guidance. Remember, You can choose your ways, plans, options and likes; but you cannot choose your consequences. Now, I don't chat with him and try to do something else for me to get away from the internet just to stalk his actions. We've been in an online relationship for 9 months, but I am now fed up with all these reminders, and if I will still continue to compromise my feelings, I know it will only lead me to hatred soon from all the hurts and pains. Get up and cheer up!... I know God will give us the right man for us... we are only for a man whom we can love and who can love us sincerely. God blesses

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