Zella, this is true?

Submitted by Flower (United States), Dec 6, 2009 at 16:39

Zella, Are you Moroccan? Can this really be true? Yes, of course....he's been to my house, so he knows I have money. But he has not professed love and he already has a green card. I actually offered to help him once financially and he turned it down. Someone else told me that he may have gone back to be married to a woman that his parents chose for him. If this is true, how do I find out? He has a facebook page...if he did get married, wouldn't his friends be congratulating him and making comments about this? I don't understand Arabic, so I wouldn't know this for sure right now, but there has been very little activity on his facebook page. Also...he really does seem like a kind and honest person. I am not some desperate old lady, and not someone to be taken advantage of. I am usually a pretty good judge of character...but my radar seems to be off because I'm just not sure what is the norm for his culture and how much this will affect him. Like I said, he already has his green card and this other person also told me that because I have more money than him, he would not be serious about me, so if this is true, I don't think he'd ever ask me for money, would he? I don't know...I'm just so confused. I was so reluctant to go out with him at first, and then I relented and now I am just so depressed...I fell for him very hard. I just want to find out the truth. Ugg. I just can't believe I let this happen to myself. I went out with him against my better judgement and now look at me...it's like I'm 16 all over again with a broken heart.

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