Sounds like a typical scam...

Submitted by Margaret (Poland), Dec 14, 2009 at 15:12

If I were you I would phone the UK embassy in Morrocco and ask if it is true that a soldier cannot marry foreigner or travel...That sounds very unbelivable...The phonecall can actually save you a lot of money and trouble...

Your story sounds like a typical scam:
1. Phoney stories ( like the one about an army)
2.Guilt tripping ( he quitted his job for you)
3.He has taken money from you, financial problems...
4.He is wearing a ring- he is probably already married...

If you read the stories posted here you will see that only women with some kind of mental or social issues, bad experiences, history of abuse in the past fall for these men...

Women with low self esteem, hungry for compliments are especially an easy prey...

The reason he seems so perfect is the lack of real data about him...

The less we know the more we start to fantisize- and you end up being in love not with the man but in your own dream of a man...

Any problems you now may have wont be solved by this marriage...although I am sure this looks like a tempting flight possibility...

Think about it,
M.

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