To Straight_Talk_Luigi

Submitted by Flower (United States), Dec 20, 2009 at 11:40

Hi STL, I come back to this site and read and re-read your posts. You're really spot on. Yep...I let my heart get away from me. That's for sure. He will be returning from Morocco any day now. And you're so right about something else: I really do deserve more than to be treated with this kind of ambiguity and disregard. I was not 'in' the dating world, I didn't put myself out there because I didn't feel the need to. I met this guy out of pure fate...fate put him and I together that night, it was not something I went looking for.

So, I guess I didn't even realize that I was lonely until I met him, and then he left! And now I realize that, yes, I do deserve better than this! I think that I was putting a little bit too much trust in 'fate'...like this wouldn't have happened to me if it weren't for a good reason, right? I guess I will just have to wait and see if and when he contacts me when he gets back. I will not be so eager to see him and I will tell him exactly how I feel if given the opportunity and if he doesn't like it then he is free to move on, right? STL....thank you for your comments, they have really helped. I will let you know how it goes. I probably won't know for another week or so. Thanks again and take care!!

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