reply to ruth

Submitted by sally (United Kingdom), Dec 20, 2009 at 16:43

i honestly wouldnt be able to share all my story on here about this moroccan man...all i can say is i was made to be very hurt..i was being used as a visa to the uk, when really this man made me believe that he loved me it was all lies. iwas with him for two yrs . i met him online in a uk chatroom, went out to see him after the first 6mths i went in a total of four times..met the family he was lovely never asked me for money or anything like that..was always nice when i met him and went to see him there...but after i started to slow things down said i wanted to wait to get married make sure he loved me then he got distant i wasnt getting him out of morocco fast enough....and he started getting distant but he said he had family problems with his sister and that is why he hadnt been online...

what i never realised was that he already had two other women online who he was making plans to marry at the same time...one of them i met through this site and i saved her the heartache aswell..so thumbs up to daniel pipes there..and the other one he married in ireland...but i do know that he wont stay with her the reason behind this mans exit out of morocco was to go to his long term girfriend who could not get him a visa to go there where she was tobe with her...i found all this out just before it was too late for me..from a very good friend..him and this other woman planned his exit for him to meet someone vunerable to go and get married toher then leave as soon as the two years was over then go to his sweet heart and be with her they planned this together...

all i can say is if i was to share my full story on here it would take me a long time...but be warned and carefull when getting into these online relationships with any man. ive been there and had a lot of heartache to prove it..

if you want to know anything else then please feel free to comment on this post i will be happy to help

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