trust me on this one.

Submitted by barbara (United Kingdom), Dec 21, 2009 at 22:35

l read your story and love belive me l know what your going through, get out now and dont look back, l cannot believe that other woman have suffered what l have as l read of the slilent treatment, omg that dpne mt head in.25 years l suffered, the same story as yours. l had a little girl that wasnt his before l married him, then 3 kids to him. l was told many a time to take my one and he would keep his 3. please him? it wasnt possible. no matter what l did, he was unmercifull. and l was allways blameing myself wondering what l had done.

when times were hard he made them harder, and support well he didnt know how to give that, yet to other people you wouldnt think butter would melt in his mouth, he made me feel like l was allways in the wrong, if l did do right l never knew l only knew when l diddnt please him, he never did no choars, and as the kids grew he often tallked bad about me to them. which has now caused massive problems, l was stook with 4 kids and fear of being alone with 4 kids, if l could turn back the hands of time. l would have been on my own wiv my kids no matter how hard it was. as he pisoned the kids against me, l did not understand the moslim thing and diddnt convert, that yet he expected me to act like something l did not understand... honey get out of that marriage now, trust me start a new life, dont stay you will never please him ever, because you are not moslim. and can never be.

theres just to much to say here to much to go into, like the mood swings the drink, the gambling, the everything, l am in uk , and have split from him now a long time, l have never missed him, l dont look back, and l am still trying to understand why l was so stupid to waste my life on him and his ways, he came to my country and my culture, why did l have to live by his culture?????l wasnt in his country.

good luck tina feel free to contact me barbara

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