Lies and the details

Submitted by stuck (United States), Dec 25, 2009 at 03:03

Maybe it is good that you did not marry him. The details: One tax year my husband and I went to HR Block so he can get his taxes done and when we got there he said that he did not have any money to pay for it and all I had was my debit card with my mortgage and I swiped it for payment and it was $296 for my husband's bill. Well he never paid me back that money and my house had defaulted but yet he sent $500 dollars to Morocco because I found the Western Union receipt and he took $4,000 as a loan against his 401k and I asked for my money back and he refused to give it back to me. So it goes to show you the kind of character he really is

. After that I never trusted when he says he is broke. He lied and said that he did not have funds for our wedding and stated that he borrowed the money from his boss, she said not true. He lied and said that he has a debt in Morocco and I figured it was credit card bills and his boss again confirmed that he paid his debts in Morocco off before we married.

2 years into the marriage he said that he stole money from his father then he told my sister he and his brother stole from his father, now there are 5 different stories circulating around my family with my husband on what really happened in Morocco and why he was chased out of Morocco. He lied to the marriage counselor and said that he does not send money over to Morocco but yet I find Western Union receipts that he hides. He hides money and states that he is broke but yet he will have new DVD's you remind you he is 38 still doing this crap.

If I ask him for school shopping money for the kids, I have to yell and scream to get it. With our first child I got sick and was put on a respirator and he stole $300 from my purse and stole another $300 in my house that I had hidden in my dresser drawer. You can not keep money in the house, you can not keep money in the car and he has taken money from the kids birthday money that other relatives have given them.

One lawyer states that once New York passes the No-Default Divorce and I am out of the crap. He will not help with keeping the house clean, nor does he take the kids to the park and does not spend time with the kids and does not help with homework support. Just a pure couch potato. The marriage counselor said that he is a piece of crap and needs to be thrown out, but I have tried to kick him out of my house and according to the police I can not do that even though I am the homeowner because there is the squatter's rights and if a person resides in your home for 30 days or more, they have the right to be there and you have to fight it out in court, but in this case we are married. I do not want an uncontested divorce because he is not willing to give child support, so that is no good. So I am waiting for the No-fault Divorce so I can get child support and I will be able to recoup the marriage money over these years that have been going to Morocco.

He is a pure thief, scammer and liar. His scams are that he hurt his back and the job and file for workman's compensation, he also cuts himself on the job to be paid for his injuries. All the psychologist said that he is a con artist. His mother is no prize herself and the psychologist and marriage counselor see his mother as a common criminal because she tells my husband to dig through my walls and ceilings to look for money. I refuse to take my kids over to Morocco and will not get passports. These people are really crazy. The mother this year lied and said that there was a wedding first she said it was in August then she said it was in July, I did not hear from the bride, nor did an invitation come and therefore, there was no wedding at all and a lawyer stated that thank God that I did not fall for it (the scam) because the family in Morocco would have tried to pull some mess with me and try to keep the kids in Morocco to extort money from me. Pure bastards. All in all, he has lied all through the marriage and all the psychologist think that even though I have 2 kids by him that it is still a fraudulent marriage and he is looking at this marriage to get money from it. If you visit other websites, it is the same thing about Moroccan men and how they always ask women to send them money or given them money and other Arab men will not do that.

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