Sharra,my husband?

Submitted by no name (United States), Dec 25, 2009 at 05:24

Sharra actually I see my husband every day and I can call his work cell number and his personal cell at any time day or night and he answers.He always seems happy to hear from me. My husband IS my husband. We did go through the proper steps. We also have our marriage certificate stamped with the Moroccan/French seal in the family Court of law/magistrates office. We had to wait on our approval for marriage through the mail. We spent weeks doing paperwork at different offices. We had to go to Rabat and Casablanca to the Us Consulate for some of the papers. I received a dowry. I also obtain a translated copy of our marriage certificate. We had to have a witness and an English translator present. I have also seen my husband on his job in his suit on cam while working late nights and in front of the Resort he works and I have pictures of him with tourist families he has assisted. This resort opened the door for thousand of jobs in Morocco. My husband landed one of these jobs. He has been working there for the past two months. See Sharra, I am eduacated. It helps that one of the bosses happened to be American and he speaks English well. My husband does not keep me in the dark. He has not lied to me. He has not disappeared from me. I have a copy of his drivers license, also his identity card. He comes from a middle class family. He pays his own way in Morocco. I don't send him anything. Sorry if I come across defensive. I don't mean to be. Women like you get hurt. You end up with bad men and you want to point fingers and blame everyone. There are honest Moroccan men. Sharra also all this work info will be on our immigration forms. They do run a background check and Immigration services are in Morocco who will do his interview and his FBI check and finger printing and medical history.
For the life of me, I see women on here married to men they live with for years and they have all this negative stuff to say and are miserable and they act like they have no choice and can't run the man off. First off, how do they expect anyone to take their advice when they don't do ANYTHING about their own bad situation? I am happy i am one of the luckier women. I do have an honest hard working man. Sharra you should work on your negative attitude.

Merry Christmas. I hope you find your happiness.

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