you will never know....

Submitted by mare (United States), Jan 3, 2010 at 23:41

Amanda,

You will never know about your situation until you meet in person. There are so many women I contacted during my connection with Hammadi Elkhatir. He can lie to my face and turn it on me and call me a liar which put red flags up. He will do the same to me when I meet him in person for I did make flight arrangements to meet him and marry him. I prayed so much and asked for guidance and protection and found all the answers to not trust this man. I cancelled my flight and have been happy since. This man had a tablet he kept at his computer, it was his life to sit at his computer and the whole time while visiting me online he had a woman and 3 daughters playing in the background and he says they were his brothers family. Even that is a lie, because the moroccan men are so jealous they will not let other men share their wife. He has a schedule with him, he has time slots written for the various women he talks to online, it just so happens one of them contacted me and when she wanted to be friends with me, I noticed all the same ecards on her comments page on myspace, calling her baby and saying she was his soulmate. Exactly that of a scammer. One who tries to say whatever he can just to get your attention.

When it comes time for you to go to him after I bought him thousands of dollars worth of clothing and everything else he wanted, he all of a sudden deletes myspace and then contacts you again later in two weeks saying it was myspace who deleted him and so on. They are scammers they talk sunshine, they find out about who you are and smother you with love, they will say anything to you to get your attention, they do whatever and beg you like crazy just to get you to go there and get a green card or for you to send them money, shoes, whatever. They are scammers, I found mine out one time he had five myspace sites and different name but all from morocco, he then started using my photos to make fake myspace sites and contacted other men from morocco, when he talks to you on yahoo, he uses those webcam recordings to talk to the men he befriended using your photos. That is how he makes money, he is a scammer.

They are not interested in you as a woman, they mistreat women, when they come here its such a culture shock here, some of the women don't kiss their feet like the women do in morocco. They even mistreat their mothers, they don't know how to love women until its scamming them for affection, money, green cards, material goods, believe me I've been there and learned the hard way. They will even contact you months later and say they are sorry, and try to start over again because you've been a good provider for them. I am so thankful I learned from that experience and that man continues to haunt me to this day. I think one day he will show up at my doorstep. Lets see because he is now going to marry a woman from Florida. Be careful, ask questions, if it makes him mad he has something to hide. Just keep asking questions and if you feel its not right in your heart, cut him off, there are other places and people to meet that will entice your ego, that will tell you are a wonderful person!!! Just look around there are so many men here!!! There are so many women in morocco they are so beautiful and ask yourself why do they want to meet someone here and someone who isn't even from their culture and religion!!! Ask questions and pray!! Keep praying!!

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