You sound a lot like me

Submitted by ANONYMOUSXXXXXX (United States), Jan 8, 2010 at 17:02

I say beware. I got a prenup which he resents, tough ... for him. I actually have in my will to leave my house to him (which my friends say is crazy), but he doesn't appreciate it. Lawyers say he could get money from me just cuz he lived here a while.

Secure your money, don't let him badger you with guilt--they are experts at that. I feel like I am married to a 15 year old baby. There are some good times, but not lots. He shows little affection, barely speaks to me (he is a quiet guy)< BUT talks all the time to his friends on the phone. I would have much more money if he was gone.

I went in with your same thought--if it doesn't work out, fine. BUT it is much harder to get them to go if you want that. I would not be devastated any more if he left, but why should he? Geeze, he would not live so great. More later.

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