Turkish guy confused me!!

Submitted by Glori (United States), Jan 12, 2010 at 21:39

Hello im a 25 years old woman,south america borned but living in US I met my turkish bf(30 yrs old) in my friend party we got so drunk the night and we ended having sex... which i dont remember. well in the morning he ask me if he can call me, so he did and we have a date the day after....we went to a restaurant to talk about our lives i was so shame for what happened that night, but he said dont worry i know you are not like that,and i really dont am like those girls that go to bed right away, i dont even look like that,but things happened....he said if he could be my "friend"(different type of friend)..... from which i understood that he wants to go out with me..... and i think i was right,so we did, we went out for a couple of months,i just met one of his friends,he usually came to my home to pick me up,and we went to restaurants,or to his home to watch a movie.we dont see each other as much as i wanted but we tried our best.. i tried to finish the relationship twice because i found things were not clear to me,but he said that he really wants to be with me,that im a beautiful person, that things are gonna get better,that this is how relationships starts....to me it seems he doesnt want to break up,but i know he was having problems(dont know what kind) i felt like he was no had time for me and i always made everything to have time for him, he knows that i love him so much........the glass got full..... when he said he is not going to do much for new years,just going to his friend(turkish) house and he didnt include me in those plans.so after that i broke up with him he just gave me a big huge and seems really sad.... i call him a week after for talk...... i didnt say anything about get back together but he said he has to fix his life first that he has a lot of things in his head but he wants to be in touch with me and if i need something anytime just call him...... well that conversation happened 5 days ago and he didnt call me yet... i feel so stupid because i dont really want to break up with him.... i know he is not using me for visa,because he is already in the US. i know he is not using me for sex,because most of the time we got together in restaurants and after that he dropped me home he had 2 relationships before with latin girls(im latin too) he had a workpermit in US, if he wants just to marry me for the greencard he knows i will people tell me that i have to be patient,but i really in love with him but i not sure if he is....... PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!

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