Hemhem, this is how it will be...

Submitted by ANONYMOUSXXXXXX (United States), Jan 13, 2010 at 06:27

Hi hemhem, first of all, you are at an age where you are definitely old enough to make adult decisions. Being married to a Moroccan man, and from what he has said in the past, if you marry this guy, you will more than likely be coerced into raising your baby as a Muslim. That is just the way it is in Morocco. Of course, if you stay in the UK, you decide. But if you marry this guy, unless he is really westernized (which most are not), prepare to have a Muslim baby. I haven't heard of any that would have their child NOT be Muslim. Let's see if this guy steps up to the plate and acts like a man (good luck on that with Moroccan men!!). If I were you, stay in UK. Once you have that baby, I would sort of watch taking the child to Morocco, where you won't have respect and rights that you have there in the UK. Remember, men rule in Morocco, and you are just there pretty much for sex. They expect to make decisions, hang out with other men, and do their own thing. Good luck, sweetheart, I wish you well. BUT don't EVER give up your supportive family for any man.!!!! Just my two cents....

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