Thoughts for no-name----making excuses and over-reacting

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jan 16, 2010 at 20:22

No name:

I understand how difficult this must be for you, but you are not over-reacting. People break up all the time over suspicious reasons, like your man having a bunch of sites with women on them, even if he has not logged in a while. On facebook, I'm not sure how you can tell the last time someone logged in and I know on myspace it can be faked if you manipulate the html.

You're really start to make excuses for him. First, you come on here and tell us how concerned you are, which is fine, but now you're acting like it's not so bad?

Usually if a relationship drives a woman nuts, she leaves the man because it's not worth it Most of these on-line, distance encounters usually are not. Even the women on here who consistently rant and rave about how what they have is real---think about it nonname----what are on earth are they doing on here as opposed to talking to their man?? No matter what, they have chosen to walk handicapped in knowledge into a relationship that is based more on faith instead of discernment of their man.

I think leaving this man would ultimately bring you peace. Yes, it will be difficult at first, it usually is and I firmly believe you have to experience it (as you have) to understand how rough it can be.

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