Michigan - please read Zella's post.

Submitted by Isis (Australia), Jan 30, 2010 at 07:37

Michigan, youwrote - " I wish I could get over my egyptian man. I wish he could come out and tell me he's done with me. I think it would be easier for me to stop all contact if he did that. But those sweet words from him kill me and make me want to come back for more. They give me hope in a hopeless situation."

Michigan, why do you continue to hold your fate in the hands of this man who treats you so badly?

Why does your future with this man rely on him telling you it's over? Why can't YOU tell him it's all over and show some strength of character. You have admitted yourself in the above qote that the "situation" you are in with this man is "hopeless".

Please read Zella's recent post "For Cindy". I certainly hope that after reading this you will see some sense. You are needlessly destroying yourself over this man and it must be as frustrating for all who read your posts as it is for me.

I am with Zella in not understanding at all how women can be so desperate for male attention that they will sacrifice their happiness, financial security and dignity to appease a man. This goes for ANY man with race, culture and religion aside.

Move on and do better for yourself.

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