To Stephanie McGuire

Submitted by Von (United States), Feb 10, 2010 at 00:04

My relationship didn't get as far as some of these ladies. I visited him once and because of this site I was able to see the red flags more obviously when I saw him in person. I was supposed to go back and marry him but knowingly as I got on the plane to come home; I had no intentions of going back to his country or to see him again.

I wasn't all that crazy in love with him as he thought I would be to marry him. I was able to back out, get back to the states and not get hurt. There are no hard feelings between us, he is still nice to me even after I told him I didn't want to marry him. If I am online and he sees me he will come in and say hello or something, but he know I am not interested. I don't contact him and its not often I hear from him. May will be 2 years since I have seen him and we might have chatted 4 times since then, for only a few minutes.

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