to ann obrien

Submitted by holly (France), Feb 11, 2010 at 14:52

Hello Ann,

First of all your tittle, is the anwser to your question Run Run...It is plain obvious that this tunisien guy is after citizenship. He hasn't met you face to face and already he wants to marry you?If you've read most of these posts its a dead give away... Tunisien guys are a waste of time! I met one when i was in TUNISA and he was charming and nice to me and wanted a casual relationshp with me. I had my doubts but in the end on the last night of being there we got together. when i got home we kept in touch and he set up his msn to keep in touch and the odd text. Then I asked him to come visit me but it was always a problem and wanted me to visit him. In fact he had no money to visit me and after his contract ended he was unemployed. Its very hard for these people as there just isin't any work over there. Anyway he became frustrated because i wouldn't go there and siad i had cheated on him. In the end i cut off with him as he was very depressed when i called him with nothing to do and thinking i was the answer to his prayers and to get of his country. He sent me a nasty text when he knew it wasn't going to work.

These men are control freaks but it doesn't mean they love you its just their way and culture.That fact that you have ten years difference is also a red flag. Please wake up and smell the coffee...especially for your son you don't want to head in to something that will be a waste of time.. I know it feels great all the attention from him but its not sincere.

I had a tunisien friend who married a tunisien man who lived in tunisia so he would then come to france. As soon as they were married he orderd her to get al oan from the bank of 5000euros and give him the money as she was working and more a less set up. He controled every move she made and she was the same culture as him. She later got a divorce as she was so unhappy.

Anyway keep reading these posts and think about spending a plane ticket to see someone where there might not be a future in it.

gook luck !xo

Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments".