its a womans choice

Submitted by issyg (Australia), Feb 11, 2010 at 17:11

my husband is muslim and i respect him for that but even in muslim culture it is a womans choice, have you seen the respect these men get from muslim wives, damn they fight day and night... lol. this is a control issue, he is trying even now i internet to control you so that you will not stray from him even now... if he is 50/50 ask him for the password for his msn, be smart and ask friends how to do check messenger to see who he has in this msn dear.... be sure you are, as am sure you are not the only one.... he already knows he got you now because you are coming to meet him.. not him meet you... and live in ireland of course because then he can go to any other country in the world with an irish passport....anyway see how much he trusts you by giving his password and letting you check out his msn... if he takes time to respond or give it to you...then more than likely he is deleting contacts or emailsss... so then ask yourself why.... am sure you want to know all you can for him... so protect yourself by checking all what you can before you go... and if you are his choice then he needs to accept you as you are also.. your culture and heritage... if that is christian then so be it.... god knows your heart..... but look his name up in the internet first and make sure your country or someone knows where you will be going and what your travel details are... and all his details too.......take care, love if you want to love. but make all the necessary investigations that you can ok... and ask for a marriage clearance too from him... make sure he is not married now and your bringing her too ireland too dear... this happens much....and for goodness sake dont marry him the first time you go...if he loves you he can wait....

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