respons eto miriam

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Feb 15, 2010 at 17:07

I think you are right there--- to keep giving in to guys who want money for this that , some operation, some excuse thats feeble beyond belief then no - i dont believe that you should buy or pay for love - if he wants you and you want him warts and all, thats how it is.i would live by the simplest of means if i loved someone badly enough and that goes also for the man, if you live simply , and hes the provider - if you want to contribute then by all means buy a bag of groceries, take gifts for the families in the form of pens, pencils books , simple inexpensive gifts that dont imply that you are just there for the giving. Make it clear that you are not on this planet to just to work your guts out for some fantasy.

You will then gain not only respect but you will also make your guy know that quite simply you are not the provider for money visa etc . do youself justice......a partnership in marriage is just that - but take on this role responsibly and give your husband the duty he should undertake and that is to provide YOU with a lifestyle no matter how basic.

The trouble is with some of these guys they will be influenced by what they see around them, they try and play the trump card - its up to the women to put a stop to this /

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