Facebook Girl and Moroccan Man

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Feb 20, 2010 at 17:36

Hi there NY Resident

The best thing you could for your lady friend is to refer her to this blog.

As far as pursuing a relationship with her, I just wonder if it's even worth it. As a guy, I can tell you its something I would not do.

I'm not doubting that her family likes you. I actually met a girl off of a dating site and we became facebook friends and eventually met in person. She admitted to having special feelings for me and we even fooled around on the phone. It didn't go well because she literally changed her mind about how she felt about me as I was driving down there. In fact, my first night staying there she said she didn't want a relationship. She also strung me along as a friend before I ended it.

This lady you describe sounds awfully wishy-washy and if she left you once she's bound to do it again.

In the meantime, though, the concern is obviously this Moroccan man who as you describe him sounds disingenuous, so I want to emphasize mentioning this blog to her because she really needs to see what goes on in these scenarios.

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