Really Leigh

Submitted by Ok if you say so...... (United States), Feb 24, 2010 at 17:45

First off you admit you went to visit this man for the Fun and sex only ... At least I have morals and self respect unlike you. I don't travel around the world to have sex for fun with no good intentions about it.. At least I do love my husband. You admitted you knew all along yours was playing you so you played him back but after the sex and fun. Doesn't say much for what type a woman you are and you are on here name-calling me?? You marry him and then you post here it was for fun and sex only and it was at that moment you realized he was using you for the visa. Why did you not anul the marriage and why are you still calling your husband a (penpal) and still communicating with him if all these MUSLIMS are so bad??

Sorry hunny but you are the one with major issues. My husband is not a penpal to me. He is my husband in every sense of the word. We are only apart from one another because we have no choice at the moment. We wait like anyone for the immigration process and we are about through with the journey.. He should be here for good in two months. I don't care what you said about my husband because he is an attractive man and is clean and he wears Levis and name brand clothes THAT HE BOUGHT for himself. He wears button-ups collar shirts and sweaters and he showers daily and goes to hamman. They have running water, nice bathrooms like we have, and beds like we have and their home is in the hundred's of thousands Leigh..His contract ran out at his work Leigh and he has savings. He hasn't asked me to support him while he is there. I don't know what issues you have with us and really don't care but you should be careful ... Leigh. Isis, Lina , and others saw our pics and had good things to say. I wore two Kaftans and he wore a black/white suit and his skin is white Leigh. My husband is not poor Leigh nor is his family. I will not discuss this again with you. At least i am committed to my husband in every sense and I acknowledge him as my husband.

Like posters here have said....when you have two years living together come back...then they change it to 15-20 years,lol. You can't please anyone here because it is too much prejudice and anger on this board . No one knows the outcome of any relationship or marriage. It does not matter that you went to see your husband three times Leigh. I don't need a third trip. My husband will be here soon. Both of you don't acknowledge or respect the other. The thing about it is, if I had fell in love with a man here in USA and from the internet and only knew him ONE week and married, ( not two years)no one would be discussing it and no one would say a word. You can (laugh) all you want Leigh cause really the joke was on you, not me. You married your (penpal) without knowing him. He even had the immigration process all figured out for you. I have had to sit and read hrs upon hrs figuring it out for myself without my husband's help or a lawyer.

Don't blame us for your failures you helped cause. I will not post more to you. ... You know Leigh you can say it was all for fun and Sex and you can play like you were SMART and played him, but really he played you and you found out too late is why you married him and you are ashamed to admit you were used and now you are a scorned woman out to get blood and it doesn't matter if it is someone elses' blood you suck and drain dry as long as you get your frustration out. Maybe Luigi should be giving you the counseling. Anger is eating away at you. Im not angry Leigh because my husband will be here soon. We have every day of our lives to build on our marriage and love and not even you can take this happiness away from us. I hope you find some kind of therapy and soon

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