It's time for me to move on

Submitted by Stephanie (United States), Mar 22, 2010 at 03:17

Yes...I know. The one that can't spell is Sameh himself...:) The very first comment was his real wife and of course, the one from Julie was the one he married by Mosque. God..what I don't understand is, how desperate to be loved can these women be, to share a man? It's not sexy, it's disgusting and degrading for them. Yes I was gullible, yes I blame myself for listening to his lies at the time but I'm awake now and the worse thing about all of it is, I realize as many times as he professed to love me like he is doing to this woman, Julie, only because he wants something Julie...he and his wife are trying to save their behind so he (they) will do and say anything to make you his slave. I realized he was just as everyone said, so I never quite gave in to his wants as the other's did. I pissed him off, I degraded him...I made him look like a fool to others because I didn't fall all over myself for him. Gosh ladies ...if you catch a man in lies, wake up. Who wants this kind of relationship or life? A demanding, two timing person (or more!) and a liar, to be with forever? What I noticed in this man is, he tried to make me dislike the rest of my family and friends, especially if he thought they were getting in his way of what he needed from me. He made me doubt the people I loved the most and who loved me the most by accusing them of doing awful things. He wanted to alienate me, to get me away from them so he could control things. He made the stories up and, who does this? Well this man did. Most women are intelligent enough to know this isn't a type of man they'd want to spend the rest of their lives with. If you wouldn't want your own daughter to be married to this sort of man whyon earth would you ever accept being treated like this yourself? Also, consider the disease you are opening yourself up to, because he isn't just sleeping with you.

Yes it's time to move on but I wouldn't say I am acting like a little girl. I grew up from all of this actually, because, before I met this man, I didn't know men existed like this. I am truly sorry you have heard all of my disbelief on here because I know I've been a pain in the behind. :) It's not because I him. I have a good life...a beautiful one and I am very happy. It's just that, It's hard to believe I ever jepardized anything for a man like this. I can't believe...I really did what I did and ...I can't believe I didn't know what he was and on top of it, these crazy women he's brained washed...are being just idiotic. I only wish to help women to not make the same mistake I did. He was great at deceiving and I am here to tell you, women please, don't risk your world for someone like I did. It isn't worth it or pitting your world against your family and the ones that truly love you the most. Don't let him come between your real family because in a few years when you are alone, you will need them. I feel literally nothing for this person other than regret and I hope some kind of justice is served. I am sad that I was so stupid and I am very sad that he keeps getting away with the same crap. It is really shocking how he's capable of lying, and showing intense emotion to the extent of crying.

Anyway, to sum it up. I am truly grateful that all of this has come to light because for the longest time I never knew for sure if everything was a lie. I questioned it at times even though I made my choice a long time ago. All this has made me realize he was just scum and I did the best thing I could ever done...get away. I hope in some way I have help someone out there that wants a sincere and honest man that will be as loving to you as you are to him. Please women, don't accept anything less. You are worth so much more. Now I will not be on here as much. I am refinishing my basement floors and there is much work to do. It's time for me to move on. Good luck everyone.

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