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Amy takes what she can getReader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men Submitted by I'm Sorry Julie... (United States), Apr 9, 2010 at 14:33 Amy will always take what she can get even if it is sharing him with 50 women, lying, stealing, she will do anything for him for some odd reason. When Sameh and I fought last May, I tried to tell her about him coming to see me. She knew all about him flying here and on top of it, she supposedly drove him to the airport knowing he was coming to see me. She knew about me the whole time but never attempted to tell me he'd married her and she told me I was just for sex. Yeah, I don't get it. She seems very pathetic and desperate. As for Sameh, he is just trying to play on you. He will be mean for awhile and then out of the blue say how much he loves you, misses you, etc... He's done it to me a million times. It's up to you if you will be strong. You are just now learning what he is but you have these fresh memories. I know it hurts like hell to know what he is capable of but all the lies you are catching him in now, they will keep on going. It's just how he works and personally I can't forgive him. I am not saying I want him dead but I don't care what happens to him anymore. If he died, I woud never cry. I know he was looking into the UK for women before, he had made a Myspace..saying he was living in the UK. I think maybe to live or to find a woman there and maybe possibly Canada if things don't work out here. He will keep using women because he thinks women here are stupid and like I said, their compassion is a weakness to him. He looks for women that have had some kind of abuse from their past, broken marriage, etc... and then plays on their emotions. He did me too...and I am sure other women. He tried again with me all last fall until December. I just knew whoe he was and like I said, when he screamed in anger to me that he was married to Amy, the soft spot for him just kind of evaporated inside of me. If you let him, he will keep using you for all he can get but you will know he is not genuine because he will continue to treat you bad and go back and forth, mean, nice, mean, nice. Deep down there will always be other women, probably not just Amy. I think you will be surprised at how fast he will latch on to another woman that is not Amy. He has internet friends in California, Florida, all over. The truth is, he isn't one to ever be trusted. You'd think he'd at least think about diseases. As for his work, concerning what someone asked below...he doesn't own anything. He borrows right and left from everyone, is all I know. He is a waiter, server and was taking accounting (tax) classes last fall. He has a common phrase: "Why do I have this f* life? I never did anything to deserve this.... Another Egyptian thing? Julie one thing he did. When he first came here we stayed with a mutual friend in Minneapolis. Her name was Jasmine. For a period my son was with us and Sameh tried to say my son took Jasmine's purse one day, that he'd seen it in my car in his backpack. Now my son had problems but wasn't really a thief, yet I wondered...I did. The other day I pulled my son into the bathroom and asked him point blank. I told him I would never get upset, there are no reason to lie to me now and I just really want to know, so I asked my son if he had ever taken Jasmine's purse. My son swore noooo...and he said you know I am telling truth because I have no reason to lie. He didn't Julie. I wouldn't have been mad. I realize Sameh tried to make me doubt my family, not just my friends or parents but even my own kids. He is really a character. If he feels something or someone will get in the way he will do crazy things. I do believe my son because my son knew about it. Jasmine's was upset one morning because it was missing, she'd gotten drunk the night before and could have left it any where...the purse never showed back up. I never saw it in my son's backpack either and my son never ever mentioned it. Only later after the incident was over did Sameh mention it and I am sure now, he accused my son to make me doubt. Oh and to the one below, I have no idea about a pizza place but I do recall when I got angry with him last May, I accused him of lying and hiding his address and his place of work. He called me back and left it on my voice mail that he worked at some place that oddly sounded Italian, like a pizza place even though he'd always told me he worked at a coffee shop or cafe owned by some Muslim man married to an Asian woman. His street had green in it then, like willowgreen or evergreen ufff...who knows and that was a year ago. I don't remember anymore and I am sure I didn't hear his message right. He was way too hard to understand. If you are anything like me Julie, this is a very hard time for you right now. I am okay cause I went through what you are going through last year. You are still emotionally into him. When you said you could forgive him I knew that. I could too up until ...I completely found out about you. I mean I hadn't gone to the point where I just didn't care at all about him, all I wanted to do was forget and hope that in eight years, I woudn't be reaping from my bad decisions.. Before I was more like, well if he doesn't effect me, I wish him well but now I am more like, screw the ba*tard...sorry...but that's the truth.
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