Advice for "I want to know"

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Apr 9, 2010 at 22:50

lack of visits to Morocco? The last I searched tickets round trip per person is usually ALWAYS $1100-1400 for one round trip ticket. Unless you are wealthy or came into a big inheritance, which I think Lisa is not, I can see why these ladies can only make one trip per year given too the fact companies like she and I work for only give two weeks vacation per year. Also if a person uses that two week vacation for a trip, there is no off time for Emergencies without putting your job in jeopardy. With this information, again, you want to insinuate she avoids going to Morocco or has 'lack" of visits to.

These are all excuses for not going to Morocco. As I keep saying, lack of communication is the core issue. A woman in this situation is at a severe disadvantage.

It does not matter the reason why she cannot see him, the point is that she cannot and is therefore at a disadvantage.

I do not think that being rich would help all that much. Distance and cultural differences are often large obstacles to a successful relationship.

If Lisa trusted Simo, she would not need to be so angry and defensive on here. She also would not have checked his computer to see if he was messing around.

It's just a guess, but I'm guessing that most couples who trust each other do not go around the internet with a chip on their shoulder or access one another's computer w/o permission.

It's not that I blame her, but the facts speak for themselves.
How many times has she posted she trusts him completely- he has not gave her reasons not too and still you argue with her over it without knowing them personally and please don't say you know and can read between the lines because if so, you would have never allowed yourself to be scammed on-line.

Well, I can read and see between the lines now because I have been scammed. In layman's terms it's called learning the hard way, and I had a mass of friends and family to warn me about it, and I didn't listen. I did the whole relationship defense thing too that Lisa and all her supporters on here were doing too.

Also, I did not so much get scammed as I did cheated and lied to. It seems like a lot of posters on here get so fixated on visa scams they lose sight of the fact that their man could just be another jerk from off the block.
Lisa can say she trusts Simo all she likes. I don't buy it for a single second because her actions say otherwise.
I'm surprised too you post you have had over 10 years of on-line dating and what are you about 28-29 years old now?

That is correct. I started right after high school because I was fed up with women, particularity American women.
You have admitted you consistently date on-line and meet up with women and it is ok for you but not others here.

I had hoped that others would learn from my mistakes. Also, I really did not date women who were 15-20 years older than me from other countries.
I think sometimes you need to get a life and leave hers alone. She doesn't ask you for advice or guidance has she?

Responding to posts on here for me is pretty automatic, partially because I've seen most of what there is to see. I post on here whether I am invited to or not.
If you have a crystal ball of some sort you are looking through, can you predict my future too??

It's not a crystal ball. A lot of this common sense, logic and the science of communication.

I find it most interesting that you are on here telling me to get a life.

What brought you here exactly?

I think that would be a good place to start with you.

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