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Submitted by Stephanie (United States), Apr 10, 2010 at 16:21

:) When I met this man, I separated from my husband, started the process of going through a divorce and had full intention of getting married with this man. I stop the process because I grew afraid of marrying him. You'd just have to know him to understand why. He wasn't consistent in his personality, nice, mean...back and forth. It all scared me. Thankfully my husband fought for me and I didn't lose my whole life. I feel great guilt and very bad by saying I didn't cut all ties when I should have and I haven't been that great of a person in all of this. I knew about some of his deception and while I was involved with him I tried to turn a blind eye. I should have been better in so many ways. I thought maybe I hadn't been fair with him by refusing to marry him, all the bad things I was seeing in him were from stress, from all the hardships he seem to be going through here. For awhile I would listen to him and believe him when he acted like he loved me so. I helped him a little financially, in other ways and of course, we carried on a personal relation. I know...I was doing wrong. :( I had no idea about a lot of the other stuff. It must be hard for you to follow because it's hard for me to follow even...:)

Anyway....from what has all been written here you can kind of get the gest of it all. That's it...that's all.

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