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Submitted by Issue of trust (United States), Apr 10, 2010 at 20:53

I read her stories. I wanted to see what is the big deal and why you and Leigh constantly go at her as Margaret from Uk and others have brought to light. If you will go back and read her posts, she said she looked at his mail list while at his computer visiting with her kids on his cam while in Morocco visiting the husband. Her husband had sent her daughters e-mail for the mom and she was reading what he had written the daughter. She opened another e-mail as he walked in and he was surprised she opened it. That was her first trip, I think, before marriage. She stated he had no surprises in his e-mails or contact lists. I would have to go back and read again to be 100% positive. The e-mail was the spam dating sites send out to get you to join which she admitted she had gotten too at times from other sites.

This incident does not show mistrust in a relationship of two years. Its called being safe at an early stage of a relationship and keeping her eyes open as she would do with a 10-20 year marriage with an American man. Why do you think marriages last or fail? The woman either finds her man cheats or he does not. Its a woman instincts to always check that her man stays good and honest or a man or woman can be cheating and the significant other would never know it. There can be too much trust and that is what happens and you read the outcome here with women taken advantage of.

I read this blog due to I have friends involved in relationships. I am married American woman. So see, not everyone who reads here have issues or is not trusting their husbands. I like to read here and I sometimes post. More reading than posting.

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